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The important person you’re forgetting

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Greetings Gift-Givers!
Hi gift-givers! Who knows you better than you? No one. So the person who has a very high likelihood of giving you the best gift of your year could be…well…the person looking back at you in the mirror.
Not too confusing, right?
One-ish more thing(s)
before today’s gift ideas
Thank you to everyone who set aside a few minutes to answer last week’s call for subscriber-submitted gift stories. I cannot wait to share them! If you haven’t contributed a gift story yet, I’d be excited to hear from you!
Estimated read time: 2 minutes & 55 seconds
Gift idea time! Here’s a story of a
great gift to spark your creativity
The “don’t forget yourself" Gift:
After 10 years of contemplation, research, and writing, I recently published a book about navigating a career in music. As I’ve done with some of my past life accomplishments, I wanted to give myself a celebratory gift that will be memorable and good for my soul. In the past, I’ve given myself jewelry, musical equipment, and travel. I’ve been so busy with life that decided the best way to treat myself was to clear my calendar and take 4 days of rest following the book launch. It was exactly what I needed.
Why this gift is great
Allows for rest and rejuvenation
It’s motivation to achieve your goals
Acknowledges the importance of self-care
Brainstorming your version of this gift
Take your first steps:
Identify a personal accomplishment on the horizon (or one that’s unceremoniously passed)
Brainstorm a gift for yourself
Gifts to yourself can be:
Small or big
Material items or experiences
Takeaways from 150+ who shared their best self-gifts:
Pretty evenly split between material gifts and experiential ones
For experiential gifts, self-care experiences were popular (e.g. spa treatment)
Many gave themselves gifts with symbolic value to mark their accomplishment
Small, but meaningful indulgences were popular (e.g. a quality pillow or kitchen appliance)
Some people opted for gifts that were investments in their passions (e.g. art supplies, electronics)
Most sought gifts that will serve as constant sources of joy/usefulness (e.g. artwork and daily jewelry)
A few gave themselves heirloom gifts that they intend to pass down (along with the story of the accomplishment they mark) to future generations
Get inspired! Here’s the Reddit thread to see what 150+ others said was their best gift to themselves.
Nudge someone else to reward themselves:
Encourage someone who is approaching a “don’t forget yourself” gifting occasion to consider a self-gift – your encouragement might alleviate any guilt they might otherwise harbor about it.
Spread some love! Share this gift idea
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Someone approaching a personal accomplishment
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Inspire others!
Share the stories of your best gifts
Please reply to this email ~ or ~ click the button below if you have stories of awesome gifts that you can share with the community that fall under the below topics:
Valentine’s Day gift
Any memorable gift you’ve received or given
Filling up a little more each week!
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How to make a “good” gift GREAT
If you can’t attend on 2/22, but would like to some gift brainstorming help, please just reply to this email.
My attempt to send
you off with a smile
I say la, la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la,
Patrick Kucharson
Better Gift Coach
Subscribers sharing their feedback
(Please keep the feedback coming!)
Submitted in the email feedback poll for The “personalized group trivia" Gift:
A great gift for shared memories to be rehashed and laughed at again together with the group.
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