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Wager it all on this gift

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Hi gift-givers! I’ll take “Gift Ideas” for $1,000.
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What is a singular gift that you can give annually to a group of friends (or family) who all have different tastes…that costs $0?
What is…the gift idea I’m about to share with you in today’s free BGC email!
This unique collection – your shortcut gift-giving relief & excitement – is largely thanks to everyday gift-givers, just like you, who took 5 minutes to share their stories of the greatest gifts they’ve ever received, given, or witnessed.
Estimated read time: 2 minutes & 23 seconds
Gift idea time! Here’s a story of a
great gift to spark your creativity
The “personalized group trivia" Gift:
My close group of longtime girlfriends and I have an ongoing tradition of getting together around the holidays and exchanging small gifts. For the last couple years, instead of giving us small gifts, my friend created a trivia game for us to play that has been the main event of our evening together. The trivia questions are mostly related to our shared memories and experiences. It’s the PERFECT gift for celebrating our strong group bond.
Why this gift is great
Budget-friendly
Fun, unique, thoughtful
One gift for an entire group
Tradition potential - removes the guesswork from future gifts
Gift-recipients, in general, are happier receiving experiential gifts than material ones (source)
Brainstorming your version of this gift
Great gift for families and workplaces too!
Logistical tips:
Break up the time you spend brainstorming trivia questions
Choose a location conducive to trivia (note you can set up a virtual trivia game)
Predetermine and communicate the game format (# of rounds, points system, etc.), rules, prizes
Trivia questions can be personalized to the group’s shared memories/experiences (see trivia question brainstorming prompts below) ~ or ~ generalized to be applicable to general public knowledge
Additional resources: general trivia hosting tips, suggested game format, unique question formats, suggested family trivia questions
Personalized trivia question brainstorming prompts:
References to shared places
Names of mutual friends/acquaintances
References related to shared inside jokes
Old phone numbers, street names, screennames
Memorable shared events (weddings, road trips, etc.)
Guess the number of times a shared occurrence has happened
References to shared favorite movies, songs, shows, books, etc.
Identify people by childhood photos or pictures of only eyes/smiles
Name the person in this photo (mutual friends, acquaintances, schoolmates, etc.)
Instead of creating a trivia game, also consider creating a 🎁 personalized crossword puzzle for a group of friends/family.
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My attempt to send
you off with a smile
So long, everybody (in my best Trebek voice),
Patrick Kucharson
Better Gift Coach
P.S. If you’re looking for an evidence-based podcast that helps you uncover and foster your most joyful self, check out Dr. Henry Emmons and Dr. Aimee Prasek’s Joy Lab Podcast. Better Gift Coach was included as a helpful resource for improving gift-giving in one of their recent episodes, Build Better Goals & Resolutions With Your Resilience Type.
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Have you been inspired by a gift idea shared in the BGC newsletter? It would be the highlight of my week to hear from you about it! Here’s who made my week:
BGC gift shared: The “frame a woof or meow" Gift
One of the nicest gifts I've ever received is along the lines of your current newsletter. It was from my sister, who is a talented artist. She found a Facebook photo of my cat who had died the year before at almost 17 years old, and then she reproduced it as a small, beautifully framed 5x7 watercolor. It wasn't so soon that it was painful; instead, enough time had passed that I was so happy and touched. It has pride of place in my living room, and I smile whenever I see it.
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