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š Bask in their surprised reaction
Happy new year! This is Better Gift Coach, where we give you your mission, should you choose to accept it, that will result in you totally basking in your gift recipientās surprised reaction.
Whatās the best surprise gift youāve ever received, given, or witnessed?
Simply reply to this email and itāll get directly to me. For everyoneās enjoyment, weāll share some of your answers in a future email.
Hereās a 10 second clip of my silly-looking dumbfounded reaction to one of my wifeās just-because surprise gifts to me. As to not distract from the actual story highlighted this week, Iāve shared more context around why I was so surprised in the PS section below (for those who are curious).
Estimated read time: 1 minute & 59 seconds
šTHE GIFT:
The āplanned just because surprise" Gift
I never saw them coming. It wasnāt what she gave me, it was when she gave it to me that made my momās gifts extra memorable. She had a tradition of pre-selecting 2 totally random days a year to give me a surprise ājust becauseā gift. Iād come home from school and a wrapped present would be waiting on my bed or Iād wake up to one sitting on the breakfast table. Not that I ever doubted it, but these random gifts were an annual reminder of just how much she loved me.
What's the best gift you've ever received/given?
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š® WHY THIS GIFT IS GREAT:
Awesome annual tradition
Just because gifts show how much you care
Doesn't compete with other gifts (the bar for what qualifies as a good gift is lower than my wifeās confidence in me correctly assembling my sonās new trainset)

š If this gift idea is save-worthy, create a āGift Ideasā inbox folder & file it away for future use ~or~ find it again in our library.
Tags to find similar stories: foodie, less than $20, virtual, experience, last-minute, tradition, just because
YOUR VERSION OF THIS GIFT
š”TIPS FOR YOUR GIFT:

Playbook for a planned just because gift:
Ask someone what they want for a future gift occasion (birthday, anniversary, etc.)
Select a random date to give them the gift
Add the date to your calendar (so you donāt forget)
Order the gift ASAP
When it arrives, hide the gift
Surprise them with the gift on the selected date
Bask in their silly-looking surprised reaction
Repeat 1-7 again next year
Go down in the history books as a prolific gift-giver
Platforms that allow pre-scheduled future delivery (so you can just get it done right now):
Just because surprise gifts can be material items ~ or ~ tasks/experiences such as:
Cleaning
Mini trips
š¤GIFT BRAINSTORMING PROMPTS:
Who deserves you to randomly make their day with a surprise just because gift? _____
ā¶ļøFORWARD THIS GIFT IDEA TO:
Someone who generally stinks at gift-giving (give them a taste of how good it feels to knock one out of the park)
And introduce them to your favorite 1-minute a week shortcut to always having awesome gift ideas well in advance. They can read past editions and subscribe here.
šGIF/MEME:
All the best,Patrick KucharsonBetter Gift Coachā¢
P.S. More context on the video above - When we were living on the east coast, my wife randomly stumbled upon an unknown (to us) just-opened New Hampshire location of my favorite hometown (Cleveland) restaurant. Upon her discovery, instead of immediately telling me about it, one day she played it off like we were just going to a new ārestaurant she found onlineā. We later found out that the Cleveland ownerās sister lives in NH so she established a location up there. Epic gift.
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