šŸŽ Bask in their surprised reaction

Happy new year! This is Better Gift Coach, where we give you your mission, should you choose to accept it, that will result in you totally basking in your gift recipientā€™s surprised reaction.

Whatā€™s the best surprise gift youā€™ve ever received, given, or witnessed?

Simply reply to this email and itā€™ll get directly to me. For everyoneā€™s enjoyment, weā€™ll share some of your answers in a future email.

Hereā€™s a 10 second clip of my silly-looking dumbfounded reaction to one of my wifeā€™s just-because surprise gifts to me. As to not distract from the actual story highlighted this week, Iā€™ve shared more context around why I was so surprised in the PS section below (for those who are curious).

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šŸŽTHE GIFT:

The ā€œplanned just because surprise" Gift

I never saw them coming. It wasnā€™t what she gave me, it was when she gave it to me that made my momā€™s gifts extra memorable. She had a tradition of pre-selecting 2 totally random days a year to give me a surprise ā€œjust becauseā€ gift. Iā€™d come home from school and a wrapped present would be waiting on my bed or Iā€™d wake up to one sitting on the breakfast table. Not that I ever doubted it, but these random gifts were an annual reminder of just how much she loved me.

Jill from Oregon

What's the best gift you've ever received/given?

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šŸŒ®Ā WHY THIS GIFT IS GREAT:

  • Awesome annual tradition

  • Just because gifts show how much you care

  • Doesn't compete with other gifts (the bar for what qualifies as a good gift is lower than my wifeā€™s confidence in me correctly assembling my sonā€™s new trainset)

šŸ“‚Ā Ā If this gift idea is save-worthy, create a ā€œGift Ideasā€ inbox folder & file it away for future use ~or~Ā find it again in our library.

YOUR VERSION OF THIS GIFT

šŸ’”TIPS FOR YOUR GIFT:

Playbook for a planned just because gift:

  1. Ask someone what they want for a future gift occasion (birthday, anniversary, etc.)

  2. Select a random date to give them the gift

  3. Add the date to your calendar (so you donā€™t forget)

  4. Order the gift ASAP

  5. When it arrives, hide the gift

  6. Surprise them with the gift on the selected date

  7. Bask in their silly-looking surprised reaction

  8. Repeat 1-7 again next year

  9. Go down in the history books as a prolific gift-giver

Platforms that allow pre-scheduled future delivery (so you can just get it done right now):

Just because surprise gifts can be material items ~ or ~ tasks/experiences such as:

šŸ¤”GIFT BRAINSTORMING PROMPTS:

  • Who deserves you to randomly make their day with a surprise just because gift? _____

ā–¶ļøFORWARD THIS GIFT IDEA TO:

  • Someone who generally stinks at gift-giving (give them a taste of how good it feels to knock one out of the park)

And introduce them to your favorite 1-minute a week shortcut to always having awesome gift ideas well in advance. They can read past editions and subscribe here.

šŸ˜†GIF/MEME:

All the best,Patrick KucharsonBetter Gift Coachā„¢

P.S.Ā More context on the videoĀ above - When we were living on the east coast, my wife randomly stumbled upon an unknown (to us)Ā just-opened New Hampshire location of my favorite hometown (Cleveland) restaurant. Upon her discovery, instead of immediately telling me about it, one day she played it off like we were just going to a new ā€œrestaurant she found onlineā€. We later found out that the Cleveland ownerā€™s sister lives in NH so she established a location up there. Epic gift.

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